This line we all have heard and uttered many a times.I want to do this because I am good at it.
Is it really just being good at something that determines your soul attention or is it just your comfort zone that you have build in the passing years which does not let you take even a whiff of other things.
As the years have passed, we all have developed a close knit zone in which we are good at and nurtured it with the belief that why do anything else when there is no point in putting the extra efforts.
It is good.. actually very good that we have found something which is our strong point, of which we are the master. But on the other hand, we are denying ourselves the privilege of doing or knowing some other things. We may be not that proficient in other things and there is a very little probability that we succeed or do well at the first attempt. But isn’t that called experience?
Doing same thing again and again (Although perfectly and perfection comes with a lot of efforts.. there is no denying to that fact) makes the life mundane and monotonous and in some sense stagnant.
The main huddle that comes in way is our fear of failure, our uneasiness, and awkwardness in trying new things. Remember, in childhood, we never wanted to switch schools, as that was our comfort zone and we had to start all over again at new place, making new friends(who may be evil and make fun),adjusting to the new environment .Similarly, now we stick to our jobs..projects just for the sake of being comfortable in them.
Such is the grip of comfy couch, that we crib, get irritated, know deep down under that it is not good for us in long run, but still coming out of it remains difficult task.But when there comes crossroads and the decision of remaining there or moving ahead becomes inevitable and we eventually go by our little brain's wish, though new change is awkward at first, but it becomes familiar in sometime.
People who generally keep breaking shackles of comfy couch and be a nomadic, people call them volatile personality, not ready to get settled in life but we secretly admire this zeal or envy them for actually doing what we thought of doing but only thought but never executed..Never!!!